6 WSU students are headed to Urbana, December 27-January 1st.  They wrote these bios for a fundraising dinner and I wanted to share them with all of you.  If you're interested in giving to WSU students headed to Urbana, talk with Jeremiah or click here

I (Amanda) am a senior studying Fine Art at WSU. Home base is currently Long Beach, WA although I grew up in Palouse. I love being back in the area and I hope to stay here after I graduate. My current plans are to intern with InterVarsity next year. This is my third year involved with IV, and I co-lead a small group in Stephenson, a freshman dorm. God has put mission work on my heart and I am so excited to go to Urbana to learn more about opportunities that I can pursue as a career. My dream is to mesh my artistic abilities and passion for ministry to serve God and the people here in the states as well as other countries.

6 WSU students are headed to Urbana, December 27-January 1st.  They wrote these bios for a fundraising dinner and I wanted to share them with all of you.  If you're interested in giving to WSU students headed to Urbana, talk with Jeremiah or click here

Hi, my name is Abigail. I am a 5th year senior at Washington State University, and I am majoring in Microbiology, Genetics and Cell Biology, and Biochemistry and I am getting a minor in Math. I was born and raised in Spokane, Washington. I am applying to Baylor College of Medicine in Texas to get my doctorate after I graduate. I have been involved with InterVarsity since the beginning of my freshman year at WSU, and this is my third year leading a bible study in Stevens Hall, an all female dormitory. Last summer, I went to China as part of a mission trip and cultural exchange with InterVarsity. I am going to Urbana to meet with other people who are excited about being the hands of feet of Jesus during our lifetimes. I am also excited to worship with thousands of people and to discern God’s will for my life.

Student testimonies—Fall Conference 2012

A brief sample of what students said in response to the prompt, “What did you learn at Fall Conference?”

“This is my fourth Fall Conference.  The first one was ridiculous [in the ways that God showed up] so I’m used to fireworks.  [This year, I’m] asking God for next steps.  [And I hear] just wait.  Be still and know that I am God.  God is happy where I’m at.  He has stuff to do where I am now and I need to continue doing those things.”                                                                                                                                -WSU senior

“In high school I was friend with a girl named Christine.  We had friends since middle school.  Our senior year we drifted apart.  I had given up on our friendship because she deleted every way to get in touch with her.   This past week she texted me and said “I would love to see you over Thanksgiving Break.  I’ve been thinking about you and I hope you are doing great.”  When Kurt was talking about what our Ninevah is, Christine was the first and only person to come to mind.   I feel like God is giving me a second chance with her.”                                                                                             - Whitman junior

“I was hurt by a girl.  I’m still struggling to feel normal again.  This weekend helped answer some questions I had in my mind about why I had to go through certain things.  God’s answer to all my questions was, “You had lost focus on me.”  When I go back I plan to ‘hit up Whitman’ in a way that is more Christ-centered.  I live in Beta Theta Pi… tougher fraternity.  I’m going to tell them I am Christ-follower and if you ever want to talk about God, I’m here.”                                                              - Whitman senior

“[This weekend was about] learning what it means to experience God’s hesed love”                              - WSU senior

“God’s grace and love is way bigger than I can imagine.  He desires for me to live a full and joyfilled life.”  - Whitman senior

 “God really helped me grow in my prayer life and in transparency and dependency with Him”                                                                                                                                                                          - WSU sophomore

 “I went to ask Sarah Le if she would pray for my friend last night and I randomly asked her afterwards if she would pray for me sleep and I felt a lot of healing for the first time and I fell asleep.”                                                                                                                                                                     - Whitman student

“I was reminded that I need to be vulnerable with God and with people to build relationships.”                                                                                                                                                                                  -Whitman student

 “I am thinking about giving God a shot.  Instead of saying that I am going to give it a try, I am going to practice doing things that will bring me closer.”                                                                               -Whitman student

 

Summer Report

"What we do on campus matters; Jesus on campus matters. I see it all of the time, kids come to college, completely overwhelmed. They don't know who to trust or what to trust anymore. Everything is on the table. Everything. Atheism. Drug use. Missionary work. The Peace Corps. Community. Isolation. Many leave the faith, many decide to follow Jesus. They make choices that influence their own lives and countless others for years to come. We present Jesus to them. We present a relationship with Jesus that cannot be really tasted in High School. We talk about a faith that is radical and that can only be chosen now that they are free to choose it. 50% walk away from faith in college, but what about the other 50%? What is the new, radical faith they are choosing into? What about those who come to college with no faith? What about the ways that Jesus is calling them to Him and into mission? This is about the trajectory of lives and the world. Are you in? Would you partner with me in this mission and give $2000 towards these transformations?" 

I was amazed how easy the words came out of my mouth. Was it easy because it was rehearsed? Not really, I had never used these words before. Was it easy because I had already achieved my goal of $10,000 in new money? No, if my past is any indication, I would let up and just have a nice coffee with a friend. 

I looked over at my friend. His tie was loosened and he looked thoughtful. He was on his lunch break and due back at court in about 20 minutes. All summer we had been trying to meet. I wonder how this would have gone in June, when we were supposed to meet? 

I would have stammered more, probably taken more sips of coffee. I would have stressed numbers and goals more. I thought back to earlier this conversation; I had talked about my calling. I used terms like, "God said to me" and "for a time such as this". These are loaded terms. In June, I would have kept these to myself and to my closest friends. My friend is Presbyterian! Does he even believe God speaks like that? 

Yet there I was calm, confident and secure. 

I don't know if my friend is going to give $2000. What has changed for me this summer though, is that I believe that he should. Jesus DOES change lives in IV and Jesus DID speak to me about being Area Director. The campus is not okay. It desperately needs the Kingdom to come and for God's presence to transform it. The Inland Northwest needs the "new day" that God has been promising since the first day that Joel and I began to pray this summer. 

To those who give: thank you. You are partners, not donors. God is using you in ways that you cannot even begin to imagine. Our students cannot believe that so many, give up so much for them. You inspire them.  

To those who ask: keep asking. The gospel that we believe in, the gospel that transforms lives is worth it. Don't settle for asking because someone will check up on you, ask because God is healing you and this is part of His prescription. Ask for money because you want to asks students to give up a whole lot more for the sake of the Kingdom. Ask because our financial partners love to be part of transformation. Ask because Jesus loves you that much. Ask. 

Participation in Healing

"We live a long time in order to become lovers. God is like a good parent, refusing to do our homework for us. We must learn through trial and error. We have to do our homework ourselves, the homework of suffering, desiring, winning and losing, hundreds of time." Richard Rohr

I hear the same statement repeatedly when I am in a season of fundraising, "I don't know how you do it. I could never raise my own support". While this statement is meant to be encouraging, it often lands in my heart with a thud. It confirms my own suspicions that this process is crazy, unnatural and impossible. 

The truth is that I fundraise with a large degree of shame. If I ask a family member to support, do they feel obligated? Do alums feel like I am asking them to pay back a debt they accrued during their student years? What if they had poor experiences? If I ask for increases, am I ungrateful?

Worst of all, I am currently raising money for a raise. 

Do I think I deserve more? Should ministry be a work of poverty? Why should Donan and I own a home? 

Shame, shame, shame. This process stirs up shame like nothing else. It is not unlike evangelism. In evangelism many wonder what they really have to offer. Why would someone want to follow Jesus when I'm so screwed up? 

Why does God call us to do things that reveal and stir up shame? Because He doesn't want us to be ashamed. 

In normal life, my shame masquerades as humility. I can walk around pretending that my feelings on inadequacy and anxiousness are fruits of a heart that knows that it need Jesus. FD asks me to, instead, tell people that my ministry is worth their investment. I have to say that what I do is important to God and should be important to them. 

Over and over again, day by day, I ask the same question:

"Would you enjoy partnering with me in reaching college students for Jesus?"

Some say "yes". Some say "no". While those responses are important (and keep the lights on), what is really important is that I ask. Everyday. 

In doing so I ask myself everyday, "is this really important?". And everyday I have to say "yes". Everyday I have to call my job important to God. I have to call myself important to God. 

I have lived with shame for far too long. I have tried to domesticate it. Train it. I have tried to teach shame to motivate me. I have tried to teach shame to make me more consistent in prayer, fasting, working out, sharing my faith, meeting with students, etc. 

The problem with shame though, is that is cannot be domesticated. It domesticates me. It makes me careful. Nuanced. Manipulative. Desperate. A false martyr. 

It never brings life. It cannot do what only God's grace and love does. 

So today, I am going to send emails and pick up the phone. I am going participate in the prescription that God has given me for shame healing. Maybe I'll raise some money. Maybe I won't. 

What I will do though, is I will affirm the value that God has placed on the inland northwest, on college students, on my family and on me. 

Partners vs. Donors

I really hate business speak.

Whenever I am asked to "re-brand" a structure or a title, I actively resist it. It all feels so disingenuous to me. Grunge was 70's rock, which was good, because rock was good in the 70's. I remember debating for hours with with my colleague Eli about why I should call my bible study a "small group". I felt like he was asking me to hide the intention of the group (he wasn't) and he thought it would make the group more appealing to outsiders (it didn't). We both built our trenches and dug in, because we both have a tendency to apply our passions to things that don't really matter. That's why Eli is one of my best friends. It's also why no one liked being in staff meetings with the both of us. Sorry Sarah.

But I digress.

A couple of years ago, I was asked to stop referring to people who donate to InterVarsity donors, but instead to call them "partners". Given the previous story, you can imagine how I responded. The shift honestly felt patronizing to me. "They donate to a ministry", I argued, "why is calling them donors wrong?". The response was the same as Eli's argument about small groups, a supporter of InterVarsity is much, much more than a donor.

I never changed my language. I kept asking for new money and increases and while these people were my friends, mentors, family members or former students, in fundraising, they were primarily donors. They donated to a cause that I was passionate about and they were (hopefully) growing in passion for.

And this was adequate. For a time.

In April of this year I accepted a promotion. I am now the Area Director for the Inland Northwest. While I have strong ideas and vision about the job, I am learning every day how little I actually know about how to do the job. In a strange way, this lack of knowledge about HOW to do the job, is crystallizing WHY I took the job. I took the job, because students are walking away from faith, never considering Jesus or settling for spiritual mediocrity at epidemic levels on college campuses. This clarity has made me very eager for the fall to come.

But before the fall, comes the summer. This summer has one unique challenge; I need to raise $27,000 more than I did last year. The bulk of that, needs to be raised this summer.

Suddenly, I am seeing my "donors" in a very new light. I have taken on a huge challenge; to see college students in the Inland Northwest engage with the Gospel and discover Jesus' Kingdom and love for them.

It's too much for me. Both the job and the fundraising. $27,000? 6500 new freshmen this fall? I lack the bank account and the qualifications for the job. I'm out. It's too much and I'm too small.

But the Lord has sent partners.

There is a church in the Tri-Cities that is providing 250 goodie bags to aid with freshmen outreach. How cool is that? WSU alums are increasing giving; and church members too! A student of mine is short on China donations...so people are giving to her. These are the same people who just increased donating to my budget. People are not just giving out of excess, but making sacrifices with me. It's crazy. They are not simply donors and many do not know me well enough to be friends. They are partners...they long to see the Kingdom come in the Inland Northwest along with me. It is powerful.

And people are praying.

They are praying with me (some every other week, late at night). They are praying for IV. They are sending me words they are receiving from the Lord. Those prayers, uttered in living rooms, church sanctuaries and coffee shops change everything. They provide so much of what me, John, Sarah, Nick, Erin, Donan, Tyler and Amanda are going to need this year. They will also aid student leaders, at-risk freshmen and atheists considering faith.

Basically, this stuff matters. The campus is a wonderful place, but it is not okay. It is struggling. People are walking away from life, truth, light and salvation. We all get to partner with a great and great big God.

I am just thankful that I have partners here on earth too.

Thank you.

Inspired by Summer Television

Expedition Impossible was not a TV show that I was that interested in watching when I first saw a preview for it. It looked like a simple Amazing Race knock-off. However, Sean (my brother) and Donan were excited about it, so I decided to check it out.

The basic idea of the show is teams of three compete in extreme challenges throughout Morocco. The challenges include riding camels, kayaking, whitewater rafting, hiking and a lot of rappelling. The teams included fishermen, cops, sisters, urbanites and wilderness guides. The team I ended up rooting for was "No Limits".

No Limits was a group of friends from Colorado. Jeff, is a Physicians Assistant, mountain guide and motivational speaker. Ike, a National Guardsman, and Erik a motivational speaker and author. Oh, and Erik is blind.

Look at that list of activities above. Erik rode camels, blind. He whitewater rafted, blind. He rappelled down mountains, blind. The most amazing moment of every show was watching some challenge that was difficult for sighted people to do being replicated by Erik.

Erik's participation (and excelling) in the competition was amazing. Being a big softy though, these shows are always about the relationships for me. Erik and Jeff have been climbing together for years. Jeff and Erik have climbed the highest peaks on all seven continents together. Jeff has to keep track of Erik in order to guide him. Erik has to trust Jeff. At one point during the show, Jeff and Erik jumped arm in arm off of a cliff into the waters below.

It was amazing to watch Jeff with Erik. Jeff never acted put out by Erik's disability. He was gracious and patient. One time he lost Erik and he was so apologetic, acknowledging that the spirit of competition overtook him. For his part, Erik acknowledged when activities were scary, though he stepped up and did them all (even the camels!).

What does this have to do with fundraising? I was struck while watching the show by the similarities between Jeff and Erik's relationship and my own relationship to Jesus and to students. Like Erik, I need to be led. When it comes to all aspects of my life, I need to someone to tell me "go left!", "watch out for the rocks" or "jump now"! Unlike Erik though, I either fail to acknowledge my need for help, or I see my need for help as a personal failure. Erik is fully relient on Jeff in his expedition, and I am fully reliant on Jesus in ministry, impending fatherhood and just generally living. When I listen to Jesus' voice, wait for His instruction and acknowledge I need his eyes, my life takes on a real rhythm. Fundraising sometimes feels like riding a camel, but doing that with a guide is better than blind and alone!

I also am privileged to function as Jeff in the lives of some amazing students. When I allow myself to be amazed by their growth, risk-taking and faithfulness, I can sit back and like Jeff, be amazed by what they are accomplishing. However, when I get caught up in the lures of success, fear and competitiveness I can run out by myself, ignoring those I have been called to care for and ignoring my own guide.

I realize it has been a long time between posts, probably because fundraising often feels like riding a crazy camel (while blind no less!). I am attempting to humble myself to allow Jesus to be my guide and to humble myself to be guide to students.